The Longsuffering of Christ… and an Announcement

The Longsuffering of Christ

Phew! It has been a whirlwind of a couple of weeks:  A loved one was in the hospital, needing extra help. My husband went on a couple week long business trip to an unstable part of the world. There was the minor car accident. I was hurting for a while, but thankfully,  everyone is okay. There was the  extra running around and the everyday stuff, including school.  Then came Easter, and preparing to teach art camp for the Angel Tree kids at our church.  Things are finally starting to slow down to normal and my energy is returning, for which I am truly grateful.  In the midst of all of this I have been thinking about the longsuffering of Christ and wanting to share a few thoughts I had with you  about it.

Suffering for a long time

Around Easter time, we all think about how Christ suffered on the cross to pay for our sins.  From the mental suffering in the garden and the the trials, to the beatings, mockery & the public display of carrying the cross through the city to the actual crucifixion and long time spent on the cross itself, we can see that Christ suffered a long time in our human terms. But I think that is really only a glimpse of the suffering He has endured from the foundations of the world on our behalf.  Because He is all knowing and eternal, He knew about all the sins we would ever commit before He even created us.  Because our sins grieve Him, they produce suffering for Him.  So, in essence, He has been suffering for our sins since He conceived the idea to make  us.

That’s a really, really, really, LONG  time! It  is SO MUCH LONGER than any long time we suffer. If you think about the time in your life where you suffered the longest over someone or something and multiply it by infinity, that gives a pretty good idea of how long Christ has been suffering for you. And He still would have done it if it had only been for you because He doesn’t want anyone to go to Hell.  That is the love of our Savior.  Its’ a love that permeates all time, every situation, and each imperfect thing with the singular goal of bringing each of us to the Father’s throne of grace. It blows me away every time I think about it!

The Longsuffering of Christ

suffering hurts

Let’s face it, it hurts to suffer. Whether your suffering is physical, emotional,  spiritual, {or some combination of these} it isn’t going to be fun, and it isn’t going to be easy.  Friend, let me encourage you. Our Father has you right in the palm of His hands. He is filtering the pain and working behind the scenes to help you in ways you may not realize this side of Heaven.  And He always has a plan that He works for our good and His glory.

I can’t pretend to know all the reasons God allows us to experience suffering.  But I can say that He has used my suffering to bring me closer to Him.  He brings me to the place where I  cast my cares upon the one who cares the most for me time and time again.  His love and miraculous provision have never disappointed me.  I have seen Him work miracles in hopeless situations and learned He is worthy of my trust – in any and every case. He is able to do more than we ask, think or imagine, and He often does just that – more.

But He wants more from us too: more complete dependence on Him, more loving obedience, more trusting that He has His very best for us at heart, more submission to His perfect and pleasing will, more worship with reckless abandon to the one who works all things for our good.


  • When we face trials, it produces suffering. It also produces the good fruit of patience in us – as we allow the Holy Spirit to have control of our thoughts, emotions, words and actions.

My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. James 1:2-3

  • It brings us to spiritual maturity.

But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. James 1:4

  • It brings us to the place where we know we don’t have the answers, so we will ask God for His wisdom.  And He gives that to us too!

If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. James 1:5

  • It brings us to the point of trusting in fits and starts until, we have enough of a track record with the Lord to see He is faithful every time.

But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways. James 1:6-8

 slow to anger, abounding in love

There is another meaning to longsuffering – being slow to anger. Even with all the sin in the world, He has not completely poured out His wrath upon sinners who refuse His extremely generous gift of forgiveness by the blood and resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ.  It will wait a little while yet, until the time of the Great Tribulation.

How many times have I been quick to become angry? Even when I think I am being slow to anger, it is quick in comparison to the LORD.  He could have just zapped us all, but He didn’t. Life still goes on here in America even though we seem to specialize in normalizing any and every sin the LORD abhors… and this is true even within the church!  You all should be grateful I am not God, because it would have been OVER a long time ago. And it would NOT have been pretty!  All praise, honor and glory to the Lord that He is NOT like me!!  No, our God is compassionate and loving, full of mercy and forgiveness.

The Longsuffering of Christ

And… the Announcement

I really love writing to you all! It has been a very good outlet for me to express some of my deepest thoughts.  However, I am taking a training class to learn how to do this blog thing right.  I’m at a point in my training where I need to take a step back, work behind the scenes, & focus my limited time and energy there for a while.  Please pray for me during this time as I will be laying the foundations of this blog.  I want to point it in the direction the LORD wants for it to go.

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Weeping With Those Who Weep - Compassion
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